How to Introduce Sex Toy

Even if you're super familiar with how to use sex toys, essentially sold in a sex shop, while masturbating, pulling out toys with sex partners can be different. And while it's not an exact science, you might have some questions about how to get started. Fortunately, there isn't a huge difference between using a toy with a partner and using one alone. In fact, you can probably use most of the toys you masturbate with during sex.

First, why use sex toys and visit a sex shop?

Sex toys are definitely not for everyone or every couple. But just in case you're on the fence, there are some benefits to using sex toys that are worth mentioning. First and most obviously... they are fun and can bring you new sensations in your intimate life. A sexshop is where you can find more variety and types of toys.

What kind of sex toys are we talking about?
Any sex toy you want! But just to be sure, our sexshop will tell you about some of the most common toys and accessories available that you can use as a couple.

Couples Specific Toys: While any toy can be a couple's toy when you put your mind to it, there are some toys on the market specifically for partner play.

Vibrators: as you probably know, there are a multitude of different types of vibrators available, more or less phallic, more or less rigid, more or less big! What's right for you depends on how you want to use the toy, but for sex, there are a few things to consider. For example, the size and shape of an external vibrator can be important if you want to use it during penetration or if you want your partner to be able to hold it comfortably at certain angles.

Dildos, plugs and strap-ons: Basically anything you can use to penetrate another person! Incidentally, this category may overlap with the vibrator category. Many vibrators are dildos or plugs and vice versa.

BDSM and other toys: Some BDSM enthusiasts would prefer to call accessories rather than toys, but whatever you want to call them, they should certainly be on your radar. Think of it as something that helps you play with all five senses, from tying ropes to blindfolding. On our sexshop blog you can find more BDSM suggestions!

Tips for using a sex toy with your partner

Make sure everyone agrees.

The first step to using toys as a couple is to make sure everyone involved wants to use them. This must involve a conversation. But don't worry if you or your partner has some initial hesitations. There is still a lot of strangeness in society about the use of sex toys as a couple. You may have internalized the narrative that a good partner should be “enough” for you and your needs, without the need for toys. With all these messages, it's not uncommon for some people to feel insecure about introducing sex toys into a relationship. Many of our sexshop customers address this issue.

Buy toys together to build anticipation.

If you're new to using sex toys together, it might be a great idea to explore the fun facts and familiarize yourself with the available options. More than that, it's an amazing opportunity to talk to your partner about your interests and it can even work as foreplay. Our sexshop has suggested this practice several times and it has worked!

The fact that our sexshop is online helps a lot! When you shop at our sexshop, we have communication channels that are perfect for you to clear up your doubts and have a better idea of what you want. In addition to having your privacy guaranteed, the conversation with your partner can be more accurate when you see all the options in one place.

Try the remote experience

Some toys - specifically vibrating ones - come with a remote control, which can come in handy in a variety of ways. On the one hand, it can spare you and your partner the hassle of fiddling with buttons in the middle of sex. It can also give you more control over another's pleasure, allowing you to choose the intensity and pattern of vibrations.

Even better: some remote-controlled toys even work remotely with the help of apps, whether you want to tease your partner from a separate room or from completely different homes. One of the most popular products with these characteristics is Lush or Hush by Lovense!, which we always have available in our sexshop!

Play with all your senses.

There are many ways to be creative with your senses during sex, with or without the help of toys. For example, you can experiment with temperature. Metal toys retain their temperature when you put them in hot or cold water.

Try reversing the roles.

Toys offer many opportunities to play in ways you normally wouldn't. Role reversal can mean anything you want it to. Maybe this is using restraints (handcuffs, ropes, etc.) on a partner who is normally more dominant, or using soft, squishy toys on someone who normally enjoys rough sex.

Masturbate together.

Using toys together does not necessarily mean using toys on each other. Mutual masturbation is an equally valid way to explore each other's bodies, show each other what you like and have fun together. a Fleshlight or a Tenga make great male masturbation toys. In our sexshop you will find a wide variety of these types of toys!

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